14 Silent Šex Struggles Married Couples Go Through
Below are the struggles married couples go through.
1. A SPOUSE WHO WANTS TOO MUCH SEX
Some people are married to a partner who consistently craves sex—typically their husband. It’s easy to feel used by this. In most cases, there is also little emotional bonding in these circumstances. To combat this, teach your partner to engage in non-sexual activities.
2. A SPOUSE WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN SEX
Some people are married to a partner—typically the wife—who exhibits little desire in having sex. This could be due to disagreement, emotional strain, hormonal changes, or resentment against the spouse.
Talk things out, be honest, and switch to contraception to address this. Acknowledge the importance of making love in a marriage
3. A SPOUSE WHO DOES NOT TAKE CARE OF PERSONAL HYGIENE
A person who doesn’t take care of their appearance, doesn’t wash their teeth, doesn’t take a shower, or wears the same underwear every day is difficult to kiss, lick, touch, rub, or even make love to. If your husband is like that, start a routine as a couple by encouraging each other to take showers together, buying underwear and suggesting that it be worn to make you feel excited. If you are the offender, keep in mind that personal hygiene promotes closeness.
4. LUST
Lust will cause you to struggle with faithfulness; it will cause you to flirt with others on social media, on the phone, at work, and in the neighborhood, which will make your spouse uncomfortable. Your passion for your partner may be affected by it. When you cease feeding lust, it dies. Get out of lustful chats and treat the individuals in your vicinity with respect rather than as objects of want.
5. UNMET SEXUAL EXPECTATIONS
Nothing is more annoying than being married and having unfulfilled sexual desires. Most likely, you haven’t lovingly spoken to your spouse what you want, including your favorite sexual positions and fantasies, which is why they aren’t being properly fulfilled. But keep in mind that you should attend to your partner’s sexual needs before expecting them to meet yours.
6. MEMORIES OF AN EX WHO USED TO BE GREAT IN BED
Some are struggling with memories of their partner or partners in bed. They are thinking about their ex when they are having sex with their spouse. Give up on the past. Recognize your partner for who they are. When you begin to compliment your partner in a sexual way, your partner will begin to appear more attractive to you.
7. PORNOGRAPHY
Porn will keep you from developing a close relationship with your partner. You won’t even realize that you’re ignoring your spouse in favor of watching videos and images of nude people fighting.
To combat this, choose to want reality over fiction and porn stars. Develop the ability to say no.
8. MASTURBATION
Your spouse will start to compete with your fingers if you masturbate. Since you know how to please yourself, your fingers will probably prevail, but your marriage won’t. Since you have previously been familiar with your body, address this by teaching your partner how you would like them to pleasure you.
9. A PENIS THAT CANNOT SUSTAIN AN ERECTION
Because sex begins in the head, worry and lack of concentration cause most men to lose their erection. To combat this, learn to calm down, relax, be present, and relish every sensation.
10. AN OVERTHINKING WIFE WHO STRUGGLES TO CLIMAX
Overanalyzing is the main cause of most women’ difficulties reaching their climax. “Are the children fed? Does my cervix smell? Is he finding it enjoyable? Do I groan too much? Do I have too much moisture on me? Have we made our rent payments? Have I paid the chama yet? Is tomorrow a salon opening? Which weave ought to I wear next? I neglected to give Njambi a call. As he pumps, these are some of the things that are going through her head.
Woman, unwind.
11. A PENIS THAT EJACULATES TOO QUICKLY
She is really sweet, which is excellent, if she makes you ejaculate, but what she really wants is for you to remain hard for a longer period of time. Last but not least, when you sense that you are ready to climax, cease the pumping and shift positions to look cool.
12. LOW SELF-ESTEEM
If you doubt your own sexiness and performance then intimacy will suffer. Confidence is crucial when it comes to all things sex. Embrace your body, your tummy, sagging breasts, stretch marks, balding head, your physique. Take care of your body, work out. Flaunt to your spouse what is good about you. Praise each other’s looks and performance to boost confidence.
13. AFFAIRS
When someone else is taking care of your body already, you will return home to an uninterested husband. In addition, you will be so overcome with guilt that you will find it difficult to communicate with your partner; if they figure out, they will cut you off. Just let the relationship end.
14. COMPARISONS WITH OTHER COUPLES
You might start to doubt your own marriage and whether you two are happily married when you hear or read about other couples’ colorful sex stories—how the wife squirts, how the husband lasts for forty minutes, how the wife rides like a pro, and how the husband feasts on her clitoris until she cries.
Make your own personal recollections because every marriage is different.
