8 Ways To Bond With Your Sensitive Wife
Finding out that your spouse is a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) opens doors to a deeper level of communication and understanding in your partnership. Here are eight special methods to foster emotional closeness and assist her on her path to self-actualization so she can flourish with you!
1. Read A Book Together:
Reading quietly together can be a comforting balm, especially if your spouse is feeling worn out or overstimulated. Even if you’re embarking on the same literary journey, choose different physical books or gadgets so that you can each dictate your own reading speed while turning pages. Talk about the story or characters occasionally if you’re reading the same book together, but don’t stop the reading too soon. Or, should your choices in literature differ, take advantage of the chance to discuss and share what you learned from each other’s works. Many Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) find comfort in reading as a peaceful way to connect in quiet joy.
2. Nonsexual Physical Touch:
As this conversation demonstrates, hugging is very important to a lot of Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) women, frequently being ranked second only to foreplay in terms of fostering intimacy. The tie between you and your wife becomes stronger when you become a source of physical comfort and solace for her. This goes beyond simple physical proximity to foster emotional closeness as well, which includes in your sexual connection. But many HSP women may completely avoid physical contact if they believe that every touch signals the beginning of sexual engagement.
3. Watch Movies Together:
Many women, especially those who self-identify as Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs), find that viewing and talking about TV shows together is a powerful way to connect. Analyzing every exchange on the show not only provides amusement but also elicits strong emotional reactions, which enhances the sensation of bonding. In this thoughtful debate, explore the ins and outs of watching TV together as a means of building connection in various relationships.
4. Take Tests Together:
Analyzing their relationships and personalities through introspection is incredibly appealing to women who identify as Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs). Taking on exciting adventures that strengthen the link between lovers, such as personality tests or delving into the complexities of the erotic blueprint exam, can be thrilling. An HSP lady finds comfort and security in the simple act of being receptive to criticism about herself. She enjoys exploring the subtleties of your dual personalities and their interactions.
5. Be Romantic:
Of course! The goal of this entire piece is to offer a helpful manual for people who might not be inclined toward romance. When males say they’re confused about romance, what they really mean to say is, “It feels foreign to me because I didn’t grow up in a setting where romance was modeled.” The secret is to realize what romance means to most women and then act on that realization!
6. Plan Vacations And Events Together:
Enjoy the excitement of exploration with your loved one(s) by looking for affordable places to go on a date night or interesting local activities. There are a ton of fun options waiting to be discovered, even on a tight budget. Just search for “family activities near me” on Google and start your journey! Explore the concept of collaborative planning in more detail here. As you go on this adventure together, you’ll come to appreciate the sense of intimacy and connection that develops.
7. Take A Work Together:
For numerous Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) women, the desire to exercise more is often hindered by feelings of fatigue or overwhelm. As a result, they opt for simpler activities like leisurely walks, whether accompanied by a furry friend, stroller, or children. Joining her on these walks, if she desires, presents a wonderful opportunity to engage in conversation and deepen your bond while enjoying the beauty of nature together.
8. Discuss Your Friends And Family:
For a variety of reasons, including a lack of understanding of their husbands’ social networks, highly sensitive person (HSP) wives may feel cut off from them. A spouse builds intimacy and support in his marriage by sharing interesting experiences or observations from his interactions with buddies like Jim and Bob. These observations don’t have to be used for gossip; they can also lead to deep conversations and improve relationships between partners. For example, discussing Bob’s unhappiness with his profession and his possible move with Sally can spark interesting talks with your spouse.
There you have it—eight methods to develop intimacy with your HSP spouse! When you pair them with the eleven suggestions I covered in my first audio episode for increasing intimacy, you’ll be well on your way to revitalizing your marriage. Remember this till we get back in touch: getting to know HSP women can help you fully appreciate how amazing they are!